I was thinking it would be a good idea for single men who are in the same category of frum, (yes, i hate these categories as much as anyone else, but in shiduchim, it’s almost impossible not to talk in these terms) Yehsivish, Chasidish, Modern Orthodox, and so forth…each category would have their own meeting to discuss with each other girls they’ve gone out with, for the purpose of maybe someone else in that group mind find that girl interesting and consider dating her.
Obviously shmiras halashan would have to be strictly followed and a Rav should be consulted. Questions will come up like 'Why didn’t the shiduch work for you?" It’s important to ascertain what is and isnt allowed to be asked or answered. And once someone is interested, the two men can talk in private–not in the presence of the whole group.
In this way, we are helping each other out. A networking group of people in the same Parsha helping each other out.
I suppose there should be an age range with these meetings as well.
The same type of meetings should be held with the ladies.
Please share your thoughts on this topic.
Gut Yom Tov to all!